Money’s a handy tool — think of it as your secret weapon for living a better life.

But here’s the key: don’t fall into the trap of chasing money itself. BE CAREFUL TO CHASE THE BETTER LIFE NOT THE MONEY

Morgan Housel puts it perfectly: “The best use of money is as a tool to leverage who you are, but never define who you are.”

In my opinion, living a rich life is about being 100% connected to the moment—fully present with the people and experiences you’re engaging with. To be set aflame simply by being yourself.

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Society gently nudges us toward the idea that more money equals a better life—a default path we all seem to follow without question. But here’s the kicker: obsessing over chasing money often shrinks our capacity to truly live.

A pre-occupation can arise, mental accounting for each moment spent by its monetary gain or loss.

It's an innocent, easy conversation engager to discuss the cost of things, I admit, I’ve been part of many lively discussions about how much the new coat, fancy meal out, campervan .. cost. In a world where we are all seduced by the herd mentality of discussing costs and earnings, be the black sheep foscuing on what value we gained from those purchases and spending that time.

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A book that really opened my eyes to this default unquestioned prescription for a 'good' life.' is The Pathless Path. It points out how “with so many options, it can be tempting to pick a safe, certain path rather than doing the hard work of figuring out what we truly want.”

It advocates shifting from “getting ahead” to “coming alive.” Basically, focus on internal desires—fulfilment, creativity, making meaning in your work for its own sake. Trust your instincts and design a life that feels deliberate and authentic, rather than just taking the next step on the life goal ladder.

Honestly, I’d argue that the default quest through life—at least in our society—is actually a quest for money itself.

So, How Do We Flip the Script?

Go back to financial planning basics; spend less than you earn, set a savings goal relative to your income and expose your funds to the greatest show on earth - the economy through diversified funds. 

Then invest your time into discovering what really makes your heart sing. Once you know that, you can use money to create opportunities to do more of that. Focus on fun and expressing your unique contribution —

LET MONEY FUEL YOUR PASSIONS, NOT BE YOUR PRISON.

Success isn’t about shiny titles, status, or your net worth. It’s about genuine fulfilment, being brave enough to be yourself - finding joy and humour in our uniques human-ess (living with myself is the ulimate comedyseekers dream).

Authenticity is a magnet for material wealth, it's just not an obvious plan as it's unique to you.

Money can support your life, like the perfect partner, but it shouldn’t define it. Focus on what makes you come alive, trust the process, and use your passions as the compass. That’s the real wealth—living a life that feels deeply meaningful.

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